So much should be happening EVERY time you meet your rider before a mount. While it may simply look like a “Hi” or a “Hello” there should be a lot more taking place.

Here are the most important 3 things to do when your rider arrives:

1. Observe them – early and often.

If you have riders like me, different days can show different physical demeanor, social demeanor or cognitive demeanor. Notice how they are moving, notice their energy, notice who they came with, notice what they are saying or if they are vocalizing. You might notice a trip to the restroom or them enjoying snack or a sniff from a horse. Whatever they do, just make mental note of it.

2. Greet them!

Greet them by name, say hello to those who came along. Show them through your words and actions that you are happy they are there. Remember – there is a good chance that coming to the barn is the highlight of their day or week! Make it feel special! Greet them on their level. If they are a small child or of if they are sitting – get down with them to say hello. If they like eye contact give them eye contact, if they don’t then don’t. If they like a hug or fist bump or handshake do that. If they are a kid be playful! Connect with them in the way that THEY like to connect.

3. Prepare

Prepare for the mount might just mean putting a helmet on, but, I find it is seldom just that. This is time for some deep breaths, this is a moment for grounding or time to regulate. If they are fast moving, maybe I ask them to carry the mounting block (heavy work) or walk in my foot prints or match steps (to help focus) or maybe both! If they are scared we might sing a song (breath control) or play a simple game (giving them direct focus). Stretching is always a great activity as well! There is so many things you can do to help connect and set the tone BEFORE you approach the horse.

These steps should help you get your students to the block to prepare for a safer mount with a more consistent energy level and less stress for your horses.

Happy Mounting!